Saturday, December 20, 2008
Peace... Joy... Love...
Thanks for joining me this past week! I enjoyed preparing the posts and, especially, re-visiting many of the videos that have made me laugh, and cry, and sigh...
To wrap things up on this journey of Peace & Joy, I can't think of anything better than combining Jason Mraz and the Nobel Peace Prize in one shot, can you?! How is that possible, you ask?? Click here and you'll find out! :-)
As we prepare to spend time with my family in NB, I'd like to wish you all the best of PEACE, JOY & LOVE this Christmas and in the New Year! And may we ALL continue to take time to be Peace...
"We can never obtain peace in the world if we neglect the inner world and don't make peace with ourselves. World Peace must develop out of Inner Peace." - the Dalai Lama
Pace e bene,
Friday, December 19, 2008
day seven of the journey...
Thursday, December 18, 2008
day six of the journey...
Pace e bene,
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
day five of the journey...
Praise be to the Lord of the Universe who has created us
and made us into tribes and nations,
that we may know each other, not that we may despise each other.
If the enemy incline towards peace,
do thou also incline towards peace,
and trust in God,
for the Lord is the one that heareth and knoweth all things.
And the servants of God, Most Gracious
are those who walk on the Earth in humility,
and when we address them,
we say "PEACE."
- Muslim Prayer for Peace
(For more info: www.teamhoyt.com)
Pace e bene,
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
day four of the journey...
Pace e bene,
Monday, December 15, 2008
day three of the journey...
Sunday, December 14, 2008
day two of the journey...
Saturday, December 13, 2008
day one of the journey...
surrounded by Peace
secure in Peace.
Peace protects me
Peace supports me
Peace is in me
Peace is mine --
All is well.
Peace to all beings
Peace among all beings
Peace from all beings
I am steeped in Peace
Absorbed in Peace
In the streets, at our work,
having peaceful thoughts,
Peaceful words, peaceful acts.
- Buddhist meditation on Peace
Friday, December 12, 2008
A seven-day journey...
The good-natured hustle & bustle of the Christmas season is being challenged by a city-wide public transit strike. The 35 cm of snow we got this week is pretty, but didn't help the situation. Downtown, I hear horns honking... people yelling... I see traffic crawling at a snail's pace... and tempers flaring.
And yet, there ARE acts of kindness. Times like these bring out both the best and the worst in the citizens of Ottawa. There is no black & white here... there are no winners & losers... only infinite shades of grey. In this environment of heightened stress, I want to be Peace all-the-more. So, for the next seven days, I invite you to join me in a Prayer of Peace & Joy. Starting tomorrow (Saturday), I'll post words of prayer & wisdom from a different tradition, accompanied by my photography, as well as a short video that made me smile. I believe that taking a few moments to be Peace & Joy, we can counter-balance the craziness that's going on in the streets and malls.
Won't you join me on this short journey of Peace & Joy?
Pace e bene,
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Blissed & Blessed...
I called my mother this morning to say "Merci, Mame!" Thank you for giving me Life. She was reminiscing... She entered the hospital on a Friday night and I was born by c-section the next day. She did not have heavy labour pains, apparently. I was a wee thing, weighing a mere 6 lbs 2 on. After I was born, my father said: "Merci." (She still remembers that part clearly.) We spent the next 11 days at the hospital. My dad was so excited when he came to pick us up that he locked the keys in the car. But obviously, it all worked out in the end! :-)
Pace e bene,
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Re-connected...
Still Point House of Prayer, Springtown, ON
View from Room #2
One of my favourite spots for prayer & reflection: the dock.
Not long after I got back, we started having phone line/modem problems. It took Bell almost a week to find, then fix, the problem. Connected. Dis-connected. Re-connected. The break from the computer was good for me though. It seems to have broken my obsession with Flickr... for now anyway. :-)
There is so much wisdom to be found in silence & solitude - wisdom from within that can be tapped into any time. I need only take the time to... re-connect.
"Silence is the element in which great things fashion themselves together." - Thomas Carlyle
Pace e bene,
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
Yes, they can...
I'm heading into 5 days of silence. I'll see you on the other side!
Pace e bene,
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
...but never unloved
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
In the absence of words...
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
a mraz-ing experience...
- When attending a concert with NO assigned seating, plan to stand in line for hours; apparently 90 minutes before the show is not enough.
- It's useful to get advance insider information on the layout of the music hall; for example, it helps to even know that there is an upper level.
- When it comes to staking your viewing territory at a general seating concert, there are no rules.
- The first 15 rows of a mosh pit are virtually impenetrable.
- No matter how much the shared object of our attention sings of Love...and Togetherness... and Peace, do not expect fans to give you an inch of space so you can take a photo.
- Just when you think you're an uber-fan, remember that most kids have memorized all the lyrics; they've got you beat hands down.
- There is no age limit to enjoying great live music!
Needless to say, seeing Jason Mraz perform live was an AWESOME way to spend Thanksgiving Monday! Here's hoping your holiday was all you needed it to be...
Pace e bene,
Sunday, October 12, 2008
What it's all about...
- an evolving relationship with a God beyond my understanding
- a healthy and strong body that supports me in living the Life I seek
- a life partner who just shakes his head and stays with me anyway :-)
- a functionally dysfunctional family always willing to Love
- my friends
- my home
- my community
- my creativity
- my Life.
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Obsessions...
I am a Flickr madwoman tonite... I got home from work around 5pm, came to the computer almost immediately, and haven't moved since. It's 8pm and I haven't even had anything to eat yet!
My name is jag... and I'm a Flickr Addict.
And speaking of obsession, have I mentioned that there are only five (5) more sleeps until I see Jason Mraz perform LIVE in Montreal??!
Time to eat now.
I leave you with another quote note; this one is dedicated to Lala at Mostly Musings.
Pace e bene,
Tuesday, October 07, 2008
Love where I'm standing...
It got me thinking about the choices I have... choices we all have. I choose to see Beauty. And it got me thinking about how much Love I choose to give. The funny thing is, although I know I live a loving life, I feel I could be doing so much more! More beauty to be shared... more Love to be offered... more Fellowship & Friendship to be extended... The Source is infinite. I need to remember that on those days when I just feel like I'm not enough.
Just for today, I have enough. I am enough. And so are you. When we remain grounded in the present moment, and let go of the worries of tomorrow and the regrets of yesterday, we will have All that there is.
The greatest adventure is to be fully where you are standing.
Pace e bene,
Wednesday, October 01, 2008
The crash...
- work is busy with exciting projects that will soon come to fruition...
- creativity has been burning with photography and the creation of quote notes galore...
- community is being built by engaging with online photo groups...
- limits are being pushed by preparing for my second 10K run on Oct. 12...
- excitement levels are climbing for our upcoming trip to Montreal to see Jason Mraz in concert...
- connections are being nourished by getting together with friends & family for quality time...
- love is being tended to by spending precious time with Hubby...
- faith is being restored by finding bits of time for meditation...
Is it any wonder I crashed today?! Nothing. Depleted. Empty.
I'm grateful for the wisdom & experience that told me to simply go home. I was useless at work: couldn't focus... couldn't keep my eyes open... couldn't type to save my life.
The afternoon nap surely helped, but so will an early-to-bed night. Self-care is no longer a difficult choice for me...
pace e bene,
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Monday, September 29, 2008
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Gift of self...
Monday, September 22, 2008
One + One = Both
Happy 18 years to us!
And here's to many more, one day at a time...
pace e bene,
Sunday, September 21, 2008
International Day of Peace
image by jag in honour of Peace Day
Friday, September 19, 2008
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Daring to be ourselves...
I was first introduced to May Sarton through her book Journal of a Solitude. I'm thinking it's time to pick it up and read it again...
pace e bene,
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Monday, September 15, 2008
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Letting go...
Tuesday, September 09, 2008
The only journey...
THE JOURNEY
One day you finally knew
what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you
kept shouting
their bad advice --
though the whole house
began to tremble
and you felt the old tug
at your ankles.
"Mend my life!"
each voice cried.
But you didn't stop.
You knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried
with its stiff fingers
at the very foundations,
though their melancholy
was terrible.
It was already late
enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen
branches and stones.
But little by little,
as you left their voices behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do --
determined to save
the only life you could save.
Thursday, August 21, 2008
jag & the daily click
It's amazing to see what interest groups are part of the Flickr community. I've even joined a group that specializes in Doors & Windows! (I've always been drawn to taking pictures of windows and doors - now I realize that I'm not the only one!! :-))
If you're interested, I invite you to spend some time swimming in my photostream on Flickr. Enjoy!!
Pace e bene,
Friday, August 15, 2008
Checking in...
Pace e bene,
Sunday, August 03, 2008
Sending you hugs...
Hugs to you!
Pace e bene,
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Messengers & Messages...
He had an important message to share... and he did so with grace and humour. But here's the thing: he's not the first, nor will he be the last, to tell us what we already know. Whatever we're living, this too shall pass... Whether it be blessing or burden, this too shall pass... Question is, are we fully engaged with it, in that moment of presence?
Yesterday, I also read this short post from No Impact Man, Colin Bevan, in NYC. He, too, is a messenger... telling us what we already know. But I'm not sure we, as a society, want to hear it told in such simple, clear terms. We'd rather complicate it... and analyze it... and debate it... and eventually ignore it.
We are surrounded by messengers and messages... Which ones are you ignoring today?
Pace e bene,
Monday, July 21, 2008
La petite séduction...
In any case, this week's show will be featuring my hometown: St-Louis-de-Kent, New Brunswick! Find out more about this week's episode here - broadcast is Wednesday at 8pm. The timing is perfect, as I'm heading home this weekend for my 25th high school reunion. J'ai tellement hâte!!
Viens voir l'Acadiiieee...
Viens voir le pays...
Le pays qui m'enchante!
Pace e bene,
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Sanctuary...
Yeah, why is that?! I picked up this book by Gaudet at the public library. I had never heard of it, nor did I seek it out. It was just sitting there on a shelf... and it called out to me. I was hooked when I read the following on the inside flap: The book (...) dips into Gaudet's own Acadian heritage of displacement, and the ethnic cleansing of his ancestral family. As an Acadian, how could I resist joining in on this exploration?"Why do we assume that being authentic involves exiting from the circumstances and momentum of one's actual life and striving for an elevated plane of existence somewhere else? The prevailing wisdom is that the clutter and stress of daily life brings out what is most artificial in us. Why do we believe we're above it all, destined for so much better, if only there was time to think, meditate, and get really tactile with the land, the elements? Why must we stand on cliffs or stagger up monastery steps or kick our toes through the sand in order to feel in the moment? Why can't we be authentic in the authentic moment itself?" (from Safe Haven: The Possibility of Sanctuary in an Unsafe World by Larry Gaudet, p. 66)
I'm about a third of the way through and am enjoying it thus far. There are so many books out there just waiting to be discovered. What book has engaged your interest this summer??
Pace e bene,
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Viva Italia...
Pace e bene,
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Tears for André...
I attended a memorial in his honour today, near a park where he'd often sleep. There were easily over a hundred people there: members of his family from the street, as well as downtown residents and office workers. People were invited to come forward to share their favourite "André stories". One woman reminisced about a time when she was going through a particularly difficult time. André and his friends passed the hat and gathered enough money to buy her a cup of coffee... :-) Over and over again, we heard how people were touched by his smile, good humour and gentle teasing. Tears were flowing freely, staining both suits & silk blouses, and dirty jeans & scruffy shirts.
One of the great joys of attending this memorial was reconnecting with my friend John. I hadn't seen him for months - and he didn't hesitate to remind me of that fact! Since moving to a new office in the fall of 2006, I don't walk by his corner anymore. In reconnecting with him today, I realized how much I miss seeing him regularly. So I'm making a commitment to myself to make a slight detour once a week so that I can bring him back into my life. As I left the gathering, he said: Love you! I responded with an unexpected and spontaneous: Love you too, John! Funny thing is, I meant it - my heart was overflowing with Love for all those around me.
As I was heading back to the office, I sighed a heavy sigh, looked at the woman beside me and said: How's that for perspective? She patted my arm and wiped a tear from her eye. We chatted a bit until it was time for each of us to go our own way. We stopped, exchanged our first names and bid each other a good day. Then, quite spontaneously, we took each other's hand and gave a loving squeeze. We were two complete strangers, brought together in a moment of shared appreciation for Life and for Love. Thanks André.
Pace e bene,
Wednesday, July 02, 2008
Pittsburgh Pics...
View of downtown from Mt. Washington (from atop Duquesne Incline)
Proof postive that we are indeed in Pittsburgh!
I was happy to see this nod to Canada Day at Shenley Plaza at The Pitt.
Pace e bene,
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Celebrating from south of the border...
Yep, on this July 1st - Canada's 141st birthday - I'm celebrating from Pittsburgh... We're here on vacation and arrived safely yesterday. We encountered some major rainfall along the way! The worst one was on Sunday, just past Belleville along Lake Ontario. Cars that were speeding along at 120-130 kph suddenly faced white-out conditions and had to slow down to 40! For the first time, our little Mini Cooper got to use its four-way flashers. Cars were pulling off to the side to wait out the storm, but we moved steadily - and slowly - along. Then, almost as quick as it came, it was gone. We've encountered a lot more rain, but nothing quite as dramatic as that!
As for Pittsburgh? What a pleasant surprise so far! When hearing of our plans, many friends looked at us with a puzzled expression: Pittsburgh?! However, you'd be amazed at all there is to see and do in this city of 2.4 million. We're here for a specific gathering with friends, and will have some free time - like today for example. Museums with world-class collections... amazing architecture... shopping districts... eclectic neighbourhoods... Botanical gardens... trails for running... bridges, bridges and more bridges... LOTS! Who knew?!!
So today, as I walk around with my Canada hat on, I'll be taking in the local sights... but my heart will be celebrating CANADA!!
Pace e bene,
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Turning junk into food...
We had our second (ever!) yard sale yesterday. After holding one about seven years ago - when I was an unhappy suburbanite - I swore I would never do it again. I couldn't believe that people would try to haggle down from one dollar, especially when the item was clearly worth 10 times that much. Nope. Never again. Not me.
Then I came up with an idea that would allow us to keep the best of the yard sale concept (ie. our junk = your treasure) and forego the worst (ie. It's $1? Oh, would you take a dollar for these six items instead?!). My solution: No set prices & all proceeds go to a local charity. I set up shop and placed several small signs saying: "What's it worth to you? ALL proceeds will be donated to the Westboro Region Food Bank..."
It was interesting to watch people's reactions! Some were obviously disappointed... Others chided me for making them feel guilty about the amount they were about to offer... The majority seemed to be pleasantly surprised and often didn't ask for change when they extended their Twoonie or 5$ bill. One fine gentleman paid $20 for an old wooden birdhouse that I found in the backyard when we moved here in 2003. The final result? We got rid of a lot of "your treasures" and raised $270 for the local food bank! And I'm already thinking of next year's edition... :-)
Overall, life is good, Friends... We're getting ready to go on holidays so I likely won't be posting much for a couple of weeks. I'd like to give a nod to my Mad Chatters group for another wonderful, thought-provoking Chat last week. I am blessed to have these funny, intelligent, curious, open-minded, fascinating friends in my life!
Remember, you have all the time there is. Fill it well...
Pace e bene,
Thursday, June 05, 2008
Object of my Obsession...
Hope you enjoyed that... However my dream is to see Jason and his partner-in-music, Toca Rivera, live and ACOUSTIC. Maybe something like this one:
Hearing how the crowd knows the lyrics, I guess I'm not the only one caught up in this particular musical obsession!
Pace e bene,
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
Looking back...
The month of May carried with it an anniversary: 3 years of blogging on jag e*space. I find it interesting to go back and read random posts from the past years. I noticed that I write in waves... waves that are sometimes shallow and other times surprisingly deep. Waves that are dark as the ocean floor... or infused with the Sun's light. And what ends up being washed ashore are moments of my life as I see & experience them. At times my life is one of doing - busy, busy, busy, gathering experiences and adventures. At other times, my life is one of being - times of healing & reflection, nourished by solitude and silence.
If there's one thing I've learned, is that I need them both. This spectrum is sacred to me and, no matter where I may be sitting at any given time, I experience fullness of Life. I experience the paradox of wanting to do everything... and wanting to do nothing. Like a Holy desire, I burn with the wanting to do God's will.
A friend recently told me I was "fully engaged with Life". I love this! I am thankful for his comment, for surely this is God's will for me. To be AWAKE in this world... to be fully engaged...
Thanks for letting me share these last three years with you... Thanks for listening to the waves as they come crashing in.
Pace e bene,
Monday, June 02, 2008
Life IS good...
- yoga & meditation class...
- first run with new local running club...
- riding my bike...
- reading my book...
- watching a movie... and another movie...
- Sunday brunch with Hubby...
- phone chats with my parents and with Sis...
- a nap on a rainy Sunday afternoon...
Pace e bene, amici...
Monday, May 12, 2008
Scenes from Mississauga...
jag's post-10km salute
jag & shiny gold medal (in my mind, I came in first :-))
Mississauga marathoner friends (l-r: jim, heather, mark & Hubby)
more medallists (Hubby, John & Vanessa)
the Mississauga Gang (l-r: jim, lin, jag, ros, Hubby, john & vanessa)
Pace e bene,